February 2012
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Don't talk to me if you're just going to show off.
I don’t see why you would bring up a conversation about yourself. Not sure if you notice, but I really don’t care what’s been happening in your life if I never asked.
It was bound to happen.
As we grew up, we grew farther & farther apart from each other. The thought of it was always in the back of my mind, but I guess I brushed it off thinking it wouldn’t happen. I was just so used to having you in my life that I didn’t want to believe for a second that you would leave. But now I realized that I should have put more of my trust in these doubts than believing in you.
Those friends that check up on you.
ayvivianchang:
The ones that randomly send you a message asking how you are. It shows that they really care about you. That no matter how busy their life may be, they always find time for you. Sure, some people are just naturally friendly but it proves that there’s still true friends out there in a sea of fakes. If you have one of these, don’t neglect them. There’s not many of them left.
That's what I never liked about you.
You kept everything to yourself & you refused to let me be a part of your life. It was nice to be together on a personal level where everything was between us, but I didn’t like the strict privacy. I guess I wasn’t worthy of your acceptance when all you did was avoid me.
If you want intimate details then find out...
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Turn loss into gain.
Losing something or someone may seem dramatic at first because of all the changes, but its significance will not hesitate to fade away. Maybe in present time you are convinced that a loss is nothing more than absence in your life. You believe that without this item or this person, you won’t be able to live through it all. But overtime, you will forget its importance as you gain new...
“Screw boys, heels can keep me on my toes better than they can.”
The more I grow up, the more I realize how easy...
It’s funny to think back & remember how difficult I thought everything would be. But since I’m starting to ease into adulthood, the fear suddenly disappears after all these experiences.
I can't stand seeing insecure girls.
The worst thing is that they admit that they hide behind their makeup & hair products. I don’t see how they can come up with all these ideas when it just lowers their confidence. If society is to blame, then the best revenge is to ignore what people say & just embrace your beauty.
duhpeter asked: v string? only you would know... ;D
You only notice me once I've completely ignored...
Nice to know where I fit in your life.
If you don't respect me as a friend, then I won't...
duhpeter asked: g string = le thong!?!
mohamhamtaro asked: Tattoos and piercings
duhpeter asked: G-strings?! ;D
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The "turn-off" "turn-on" game. Ask me anything and...
http://missjngo.tumblr.com/ask
VIVIAN.: They say everyone grows weak at one point... →
thaatsvivian:
They say everyone grows weak at one point and slowly, surely I’m getting there. Being strong all the time sure is tiring. Actually, it’s very exhausting. It’s the same cycle every time. I grow fragile and vulnerable, then I build myself to become stronger, yet it always happens. I always fall apart on some random days, then randomly I’m okay again. They say, what doesn’t kill you...
Anonymous asked: Where did you get those brown combat boots? :-)
I don't have much patience with people.
And it’s annoying when people push me to my limits. I don’t like dealing with others when all they do is try to get me irritated by their constant teasing & lack of efforts in our friendships. It makes me not want to be around them at all.
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Don't bother talking to me online.
The more you say you miss me, the less I believe it when you’re inaction shows otherwise. I don’t see the point in telling me you want to hang out & catch up when your words have gotten nowhere. Just don’t waste my time if you don’t have the decency to even visit.
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People who don't talk to me with smileys make me...
It makes me think that they don’t like me or that I’m bothering them.
I don't like giving people the benefit of the...
It gives them a better reason to take advantage of me. I refuse to just focus on the goodness of certain people when they can turn against me at any second. Trust is the hardest bargain to gain & it certainly doesn’t come easy with me.
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Jealousy has ever been a problem with me when it...
It’s odd to admit that because I’ve always been full of envy. But now, I’m quite satisfied knowing you’re happy even if I’m not in your life anymore. Guess it shows that my feelings for you weren’t as genuine as I once thought.
vivianduong:
All you can really do sometimes is cry, cry till your hearts content. I don’t like to open up to people. I’d rather not talk about my problems. It’s just something that I keep to myself because it never really concerns anyone else but me. It’s always a battle between my mind and my heart. Plus, I can never put it in words and explain myself where someone could understand anyone....
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I wish I could have normal conversations around...
I feel like everybody teases each other too much that it makes me uncomfortable most of the time. It makes me irritated when I have to question if they actually want me not to like them or are they just complete fools that I need to learn how to avoid.
“It’s more interesting to have just a picture of a small detail - then you can...”
– Dries van Noten (via yearslater)
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It takes two to make a relationship work.
Seems simple, right? But so many couples don’t put in the same efforts as each other, causing even more arguments & break ups. Being in a relationship doesn’t require you to see eye to eye, but you still have to realize both of your faults & respect the each other just the same.
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I wonder how different I would be if things...
I question what type of person I would be if all my decisions were chosen based on my happiness rather than just my selfishness. Would I be a better person overall compared to how I am now? I wonder how I would turn out to be if everything that has happened so far changed for the better.
You're perfect, but I want to change everything...
My mentality in a relationship.
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If I laid my heart out to you, would you look at...
It makes me feel so vulnerable when I reach to a point of complete comfort with someone. Knowing that they can go against me at any given time throws me into fear when my paranoia gets the best of me. Sometimes I can’t stand it when people offer their time to listen to me because all I can imagine is regretting my decision to trust them once they turn their backs on me. I would much rather...
Alone.
thaatsvivian:
Being alone is quite annoying isn’t it? That feeling of never having anyone by your side at all. No matter what it was that you were doing, you’d feel so alone. Where’s the moral support from your friends? Your family? It’s nowhere. Why are there so many people in the world that feel alone? People shouldn’t have to feel this way. No one should have to feel this way. Yet a lot of us...
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I wish I had one person to hang out all the time just for the hell of it. Whenever, whatever.
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Don't make promises to me if you don't intend to...
Promises may seem like just simple words, but they are very meaningful to me. Don’t fail me by thinking you can accept our promises, just to disappoint me in the end when you break them. You should stay true to your words when it proves to me that you’re worthy of my trust. Promises are meant to be kept, so don’t bother with them if you can’t follow through.
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I'm sorry.
I’m not apologizing for what I’ve done to you, I’m sorry for being myself. I can’t stand the person I am yet I refuse to change anything about it. I feel like whatever I do, I’ll never live to satisfy what you’ve been seeking all along. But I think that’s the problem, I’m trying to find ways to make you happy when I should just be living without the...
Some people suffer from the fear of finding...
I can't stand overly insecure people.
The fact that they spend so much time complaining about their appearance really bothers me. Everybody has something they would like to change, but don’t grow so obsessive about it. The more they point out their flaws, the less I want to become friends with them. I can’t hang out with people who are too caught up with their appearance to realize that other things in life are far more...
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It used to be cute when you looked up to me.
Now it’s just straight out annoying when you try to own everything I have. Go find your own individuality. Maybe people will like you more once you stop copying everybody.
dinhtheresa:
You’re not aware of how much of an impact you’ve had on me, or how much you matter to me. I never open up to anyone, but I let my guard down for you. I let you get a hold of the best of me, and everything you do could easily break me that much. I’ve told you things I’ve never told anyone, because I trusted you that much. What sucks is how it’s like my words don’t even matter...
I've already had you all to myself for one day.
One night of just the two of us wouldn’t make a difference in the world. This is reality urging me to entirely give up when I never started trying. I should be done with all the “what if” when nothing can be worse that it is now. So thanks, thanks for not falling for me when I wasn’t asking for it. But thanks for killing any hope that was left in my mind. At least now...
